ok say you have a friend. someone who you can talk to about almost anything! But.....theres a But. they contradict EVERYTHING you have to say or talk about. i know some people might not not care about that but i think it can be very annoying. you cant talk to them about anything because you dont wanna be corrected...EVERYTIME! it never fails. wouldnt you get alittle annoyed? example:
you: If i had a motorcycle..like a crotch rocket i would drive like 130 miles an hour and if i cop pulled me over and asked me if i knew how fast i was going i would gladly (with a smile) say "yes sir!!! i was going 130" lol
HIM: ACTUALLY KELLY YOU KNOW IF YOU WERE GOING THAT FAST THE COPS PROBABLY WOULDNT EVEN BOTHER PULLING YOU OVER BECAUSE THEY WOULD KNOW THEY WOULDNT CATCH YOU.
you: yes they would are kidding me? they have alot of car chases where cars are going up to those speeds.
HIM: NO THEY WOULDNT. YOU WOULD BE GONE BY THE TIME THEY REALIZED HOW FAST YOU WERE GOING, PLUS THERE CARS DONT GO THAT FAST ANYWAYS. THEY WOULD NEVER CATCH YOU. :::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::::
(grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr!)(thats me)
another example:
he got a blood clot on his arm. like a small vein that was swelling and you could see a small red dot from it.
him: do have an antihistamine?
me: no why?
him: because i need to put it on my arm cuz of my blood clot i just got. my vien is swelling and i need it to go down.
me: lol no and i dont think you put an antihistamine on it anyways. i think an antihistamine is for allergies. not blood clots.
so i asked my dad if we had any for him, and my dad tells him that he shouldnt be putting an antihistamine on his arm. my dad went to school for that kind of stuff, so he was telling him what he did need to put on it for the swelling to go down. he starts argueing with my dad! lol well not argueing but contradicting my dad! and my dad knows for a fact about this stuff because he went to school for it! and even after my dad told him he went to school for it he STILL contradicted him! lol
its hard to come up with examples for this because we talked about sooooo much stuff and everything we talked about he contradicted me. so when i said "keep your thoughts to yourself" i just ment DONT CONTRADICT ME. you can actually have a conversation with someone without haveing to contradict them. he always just made me feel like i didnt know anything like i was stupid and he knew it all. THATS WHAT GOT ANNOYING!!!!!!!!
i could be talking about moisquitos or something. i would say "did you know they live in the grass" and he would have to say "no they live in the trees" or.....i could be talking about something ill def know is true and i know the answer and he will still contradict me!! lol grrrrr it just got soo annoying after awile. it made me not wanna talk to him about anything. its one thing to state what you heard or what you might think about the situation or conversation or even say well "i think.......blah blah blah blah" but to tell me im wrong and correct me about everything i wanna talk about, it just makes me not wanna talk to you about anything. i dunno maybe im wrong in the situation but thats how i feel. now im pointing out something that you obviously didnt see. how do you feel now? good? ok good thats what i was making sure of...i wouldnt wanna hurt YOUR feelings. |